Who is a successful woman? Is her life better than that of an ordinary one? And is it really better? Can she be identified by external signs, such as clothing, hairstyle, figure, or are we talking about habits, daily routine, a special facial expression, or perhaps her environment played an important role? All these are external manifestations of the internal state, and as a rule, they indeed "signal" that there was work on oneself, there was a clearly conscious desire - to make it in this life. 

     You will be surprised, but the path to success always begins with contact with oneself, through the realization of one's value. When understanding suddenly comes of what one truly wants. And then the care about bringing what you so desire into your life. Time immediately finds itself, and meanings appear.

      And I want to say that truly successful women, as a rule, are also beloved wives and happy mothers, if only they understand that they need it. Don't believe? Let's go step by step.

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      Since we started with the external signs of a successful woman, let's try to systematize them. So, a successful woman:

1. Always knows her worth, has a sense of self-worth, and she doesn't shout about it on every corner, she is harmonious in all her manifestations.
2. Can protect herself from life's adversities on her own, whether it's about office or domestic tasks:

•      Can solve problems
•      Can ask for help
•      Knows how to communicate with different people

3. Feels comfortable alone and can live quite harmoniously by herself, without losing the sense of fullness and meaning in her life.
4. Can support and comfort herself, she knows how to be in balance, and most importantly, how to return to it if needed.
5. Knows what interests her, and if she has a husband and children, then they are both fed and cared for, and she also finds time for hobbies, friends, and personal development.
6. Has her own personal space, while remaining part of the family, she feels her and her loved ones' boundaries well, speaks about her needs and desires, allowing her family the freedom to fulfill them or not, she knows where the line is that is unacceptable for her, and she values most the depth and warmth in relationships.
7. Clearly knows what she wants, what suits her, and what she likes.
8. Can enjoy simple things, as well as aesthetically appreciate art and beauty.
9. Always finds time to take care of herself, her beauty and health.
10. Openly expresses her wishes balancing sincerity and politeness, she can admire and respect people for the good that is in them, allowing them to be imperfect in some ways.

And what kind of woman are you? Being successful can be learned, the main thing is to understand what you really want.

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