Have you ever been in a relationship with a "cold" ignoring partner?

When you realize that you don't want to choose relationships that harm you. Consciously, you don't want to be with someone who doesn't choose you consistently and doesn't value you enough. When these relationships can hardly even be called relationships.

But you are drawn to this «cold» partner like a magnet. There is always hope that something will change for the better. But nothing happens other than lowering your self-esteem and wasting time.
That's how the subconscious scenario works.

As a rule, it forms in childhood through interactions with «cold», detached, or abandoning parents.

Later, in adulthood, such a person tries to find love and acceptance from those who cannot truly love and accept them.

And normal partners, capable of building healthy relationships, are simply not of interest.

If you tend to fall into similar stories, don't hesitate to seek help from a psychologist.
It's better to observe how your self-esteem grows and life improves rather than unsuccessfully trying to find happiness in relationships doomed to «coldness» and endless worries and unfulfilled hopes.