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Do you want your man to be generous, share with you, give you gifts, and take on financial responsibilities?
🗓️ 20.08.2025
✍️ Author: Sergey Vasilyevich Zagrebelny
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My man is a miser.

Do you want your man to be generous, to share with you, to give you gifts, and to take on financial responsibilities?

Of course, you do. But for some reason, some encounter generous men, while others meet misers. And it’s not about the amount of resources a man possesses. It's about his attitude towards you. And it's not just about money. Stinginess with attention, care, and compliments also counts.

I want to declare to you that 100% greedy men do not exist!

The qualities he will display towards you depend half on his values, upbringing, and past experiences. And the other 50% depends on you.

Read also: Miser or Spendthrift? How to agree on finances with your partner..

Let me unveil a little about men's psychology and share personal experience.

I always loved counting money, wisely managing the budget, and making only rational expenditures. Simultaneously, I had an unhealthy belief that all girls were materialistic. Therefore, I preferred to save on relationships.

What do you think was the quality of these relationships? I was considered stingy, and I became convinced of women's materialism. Like attracts like.

But when a man engages in self-development, his surroundings change too.

One day, I met a girl who completely changed my attitude towards women. I no longer wanted to economize on my girlfriend. I wanted to pay for her in cafes, give flowers not only on holidays but just because. To make pleasant surprises, to say kind words.

And not once did the thought of female materialism arise. Nor that my spending was unreasonable. Despite the fact that my financial affairs at that time weren't great. And I wasn’t even in love with her.

What’s the magic?

No magic! When a woman is calm and relaxed, has healthy boundaries and inner self-sufficiency. When she respects herself and men – she naturally attracts adequate men. And effortlessly prompts them to display their best qualities. She is worthy.

Are you curious what it means to be worthy and what kind of girl will make a man generous? Sign up for an express consultation by submitting a request on the website, it is conducted free of charge. I will contact you and help you figure out your situation.

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This is exactly how my client's husband responded to the suggestion of attending a psychological session together. 👀 Usually, people go to psychologists to preserve their relationships. They hope that with the help of a psychologist, they will manage to "reach" their partner. Or they will work through their negative patterns and psychological traumas, and after that live in a happy relationship.

If I go with you to the psychologist, then we will probably break up...

This is exactly how my client's husband responded to the suggestion of attending a psychological session together. 👀 Usually, people go to psychologists to preserve their relationships. They hope that with the help of a psychologist, they will manage to "reach" their partner. Or they will work through their negative patterns and psychological traumas, and after that live in a happy relationship.
 
Imagine that you dream of harmonious and happy relationships, but you try to build them with broken "tools." These so-called tools are destructive beliefs and behavior patterns that create distance instead of closeness, coolness instead of warmth, and mistrust and indifference instead of understanding and respect. However, sometimes we don't even realize that we are moving in the wrong direction. Well, let's shed some light on these relationship anti-rules.

7 Ways to Ruin a Relationship.

Imagine that you dream of harmonious and happy relationships, but you try to build them with broken "tools." These so-called tools are destructive beliefs and behavior patterns that create distance instead of closeness, coolness instead of warmth, and mistrust and indifference instead of understanding and respect. However, sometimes we don't even realize that we are moving in the wrong direction. Well, let's shed some light on these relationship anti-rules.
 
За ним не нужно убирать лоток, он умеет пользоваться унитазом. И хорошо вписывается в диванный интерьер. А еще, может быть нежным и чутким, хорошо ухаживать. Особенно на этапе знакомства. Иногда помогает в быту.
Очень мило, правда?

Почему мне попадаются "домашние котики" вместо мужчин?

За ним не нужно убирать лоток, он умеет пользоваться унитазом. И хорошо вписывается в диванный интерьер. А еще, может быть нежным и чутким, хорошо ухаживать. Особенно на этапе знакомства. Иногда помогает в быту.
Очень мило, правда?
 
The desire for pleasure, sweet union, merging with a partner, and bliss is something that attracts us very strongly and often frightens us at the same time. All of this is the realm of experiences, sensory experience, and biological need. ⠀
There lie our most secret fantasies, aspirations, expectations, and dreams, often not fully realized by us.

DO WE KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT OUR SEXUALITY?

The desire for pleasure, sweet union, merging with a partner, and bliss is something that attracts us very strongly and often frightens us at the same time. All of this is the realm of experiences, sensory experience, and biological need. ⠀
There lie our most secret fantasies, aspirations, expectations, and dreams, often not fully realized by us.
 

How can a woman become worthy and awaken generosity in a man?