A woman signed up for a consultation, we worked online.

Beautiful, well-groomed, accomplished in all areas of life except relationships.

She had always been a loving and caring daughter to her mother and, having moved thousands of kilometers away from home, always found a way to keep in touch with her mother. She regularly took her to sanatoriums in winter and invited her to stay in summer. And when she turned 40, she realized she wanted a family and children. She informed her mother that now all her free time would be dedicated to a man and relationships. Her mother initially reacted calmly, but then a serious conflict arose, and during a conversation, she said, “I deeply regret marrying your father; I shouldn't have given birth; it would have been better if I had divorced right after the wedding.”

The passions gradually subsided, but one night, waking from a nightmare, the woman realized that the entire left side of her body was numb. She could still walk and move, but it felt like her balance was off and the left side was dysfunctional.

Afterwards, there were examinations, tests, rehabilitation, massages, and much more, and recently one of the doctors provided a prognosis – the left leg might become shorter over time.

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- Your mother said, and you heard, that she regrets your birth, or in other words, she wished to stop the continuation of the family line with you.

- Yes, that's exactly how it sounded.

- You accepted her unconscious “curse”, and now your body shows you that there can't be any talk of family, a man, or children.

- Yes, but I really want all of this to come into my life.

- The doctor said that “the left leg might become shorter.” And this is the feminine part of your personality. Recall sayings and expressions about a short part of the body.

- Yes, I've heard, “being on a short leg”

- What is that for you, how do you understand it?

- Being in very close and trusting relationships.

- What has changed in your life with the appearance of the symptom? Have you become closer or “on a short leg” with your Inner Woman?

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- Oh, a lot, - she smiles, - first, I started paying attention to my health, beauty, and body; massages and self-care came into my life. Second, I explored my body, learned a lot new about myself, went through many educational programs on self-development and self-regulation. Yet I still haven't understood what's happening, is this forever?

- Try giving your symptom a cute, funny, and kind name. Right now, express gratitude towards it, acknowledging that, if not for it, this new awareness would never have come into your life. Most likely, fleeting and unacknowledged thoughts like “I'll never meet my man” or “I'll never become a mother” could have become self-fulfilling prophecies. But the body, through illness, forces you to “bless” yourself with care, attention, and the joys of life.

- Indeed, that's how it's happening.

- And right now, agree with your body that it will signal or remind you that your feminine side is functional, but in a different way, as you wish?

- Let it be pleasant waves.

- And finally, tell the symptom that you will part with it as you would with a best friend or teacher once all the lessons are learned.

During the next consultation, the client reported that a miracle happened)) The next morning she woke up with an irresistible desire to go to the Botanical Garden. And while she was enjoying and admiring the view and aroma of the flowers, a man appeared next to her, and her body responded with pleasant waves. They exchanged contacts, and then there were dates full of tenderness, kisses, and, of course, sex. They've been together for a year, yes, it truly works.

Our body is our wisest Teacher, and if it initiates an emergency plan of illness, it means it’s the only way to reach us, to draw our attention to what’s happening in our life.

Long live the symptom for the better!

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