- Why should I go anywhere when I have almost everything at home: books, internet – magic that opens access to any information.

 - You're a sociophobe!

- No, I'm normal, just an introvert)

Our society, unfortunately, labels everyone who differs from the "golden mean." If you are an athlete, then most likely the intelligence is so-so, if a PhD, then a "nerd", and if an introvert, then definitely hates people – no options.

But is it really so? Is everything so bad? And what if the closest and dearest person: spouse, child, friend - is an introvert?

An introvert – is a person immersed in their inner world. All their efforts are focused on study, contemplation, self-analysis. They are well with themselves. But their surroundings, of course, may be greatly lacking. The good news is that it is introverts who have given the world scientific inventions, philosophical treatises, masterpieces of literature and cinema, etc. For example, world-famous introverts are: Isaac Newton, Charles Darwin, Albert Einstein, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Steven Spielberg, Lady Gaga, Johnny Depp, and many others.

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How did they manage it? There are little secrets:

• Not so dependent on others' opinions
• Have their own value system
• Move towards their goal despite the opinions of others
• Very self-sufficient, persistent, and consistent

 There is also one big drawback – they do not wish to build social connections. But, the most reliable and good partner, friend will definitely be an introvert. So how do you live with them, which joint hobbies will bring moments of happiness and strengthen relationships? Top 5:

1. Reading and discussing a good book

Books are a whole world for many introverts, and discussions and reflections on what has been read can make your evening together.

 2. Board games or watching a classic movie

Puzzles, crosswords, charades, detective stories, or comedies, etc. Not only useful for the brain but also for relationships

3. Collecting everything you like.

Whether it's coins, stamps, wrappers, antique dishes, keychains, etc. It is always accompanied by excitement, searching… and meeting like-minded people who share your interests.

4. A conversation over a cup of aromatic coffee, tea, a glass of wine or a walk

Here, the opinions of introverts and extroverts coincide – this is one of the simplest and most accessible pleasures, especially when it's a heartfelt conversation.

5. Learning a new hobby .

It doesn't matter whether it's wood carving, fabric painting, cooking, tailoring, gardening, etc. Indulge yourself in joint hobbies and interests.

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As you can see, it is simply important to tune your relationship, for this, create a list of what you are interested in doing together. Introverts - they are very selective in people and relationships, they just need a trusting atmosphere to open up, believe me, it's worth it – their inner world is amazing and beautiful.

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