«Harmful Tips» to Boost Self-Confidence

If you are afraid of becoming a confident person and succeeding in life, make sure to follow these rules:👇

1. Always blame others for everything.

If something didn't work out, it's your father's fault, he didn't teach you how to do it. You can't say what you really think, it's your boss's fault, he's too strict. The main thing is that everyone is to blame for your life being the way it is. And as for you, «you're off the hook»🤪

2. Remember, You Are NOT UNIQUE.

You are just like others, maybe even worse. After all, you don't have an MBA degree or a height of 2 meters and an athletic figure. Or you don't have a model appearance, and you're not as famous as Oprah Winfrey or Monica Bellucci. So, don't stand out, achieve anything, or give the world and people what only you can give.😉

3. Fear your fears.

Let them interfere with your life. Let them control you. So what if a 10-year-old boy inside you is afraid of getting a C because his parents will scold him.

Be afraid to be yourself and make decisions independently because in childhood, when you were a little girl, Masha, who always listened to her parents, was used as an example, and she was loved for it.😱

4. Only notice your shortcomings.

Don't flaunt your strengths and successes. Nobody will appreciate them anyway. But scolding yourself and making sure you're the most unworthy is familiar. Criticize and reproach yourself as often as possible - the result will be evident😳

5. Never, I mean never finish what you started.

It's so inefficient to see the result of your work and move one step up in development.😣

6. DON'T forget that you won't succeed anyway

And why start anything at all? Just sit, dream, be angry with yourself, but never start doing anything. The result is known anyway😬

7. Always criticize yourself: «my hands grew from the wrong place»,  «well, you're such a cow», «you're a lazybones», «you're a rag», «I'm just a mistake of nature», «could have done better», «you're a klutz», «should have done it faster». This criticism will give you the strength to love and respect yourself less and less💩

8. As often as possible, say to yourself «I hate myself. I don't deserve this. I'm worse than everyone. There's no reason to love and respect me», «I'm worthless»

As the saying goes «if you call someone a pig long enough, they will start oinking»

Loving yourself is so wrong and selfish👹

9. Try to please everyone and be liked.

If everyone likes you, they'll all use you for their interests, and that's exactly what you need 🥴

10. Have the appearance of an insecure person.

Don't make eye contact, lower your head, slouch, gesture nervously, speak quietly and unclearly.

You're not supposed to be heard or understood anyway 🗣

Well, there you go. 😅

The main rules to reinforce insecurity have been given to you.

Use them to your health 🥰

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